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Hello From the Beauty Side

Hello From the Other Side

Well, hello there friends. How have you been? I’ve been recovering well on this end and feeling I can finally get back to writing on the business of all things beautiful. I recently had a conversation with a good friend and we were discussing how life is about simple luxuries. If you follow me on Instagram (you really should) I have added the slogan as a hashtag. This surgery taught me so much about myself and really about my husband. Talk about a trooper.

I recently decided to up my retinol usage for my skin. I was in my hospital room doing my normal skin routine and realized some of the products I was using was working and some it wasn’t. There’s nothing like harsh hospital lighting to make a girl rethink her entire beauty routine. I didn’t know if it was all the medication or the fact that I wasn’t on my normal eating schedule, but I felt my face lacked a little sumthin’ sumthin’. I decided during my recovery to stalk a few retinol products to try and I wanted to try the ones which were getting rave reviews.

Then Sunday Riley’s Luna Sleeping Oil and Good Genes came into my world. Well, darling – talk about a simple luxury. These two products together are like Tina Fey and Amy Poehler hosting the Golden Globes. Now here’s the thing darling. Once you start them you WILL become addicted. I mean addicted. My suggestion in case you aren’t ready to jump into the deep end of the Sunday Riley beauty hole is to get the starter set from Sephora. Your face will thank you. You need this is your beauty arsenal ASAP.

ABOUT FACE WITH SILK THERAPEUTICS SKINCARE – Part 2

Silk Therapeutics 2

In my second review for Silk Therapeutics, I wanted to focus on power products I use in my skincare beauty routine.  I know it seems that every beauty routine has to have you contoured like a reality star and a full face of makeup to go to the grocery store. Don’t get me wrong. I’m not against that at all. What I find interesting is when all the makeup is removed the skin looks terrible. I have said it for years and now say it with me: pretty makeup looks good on pretty skin.

I don’t care how expensive the foundation, tinted moisturizer, concealer, and blush. If your skin looks bad underneath, maybe it’s time to get a better skin routine and ditch a lot of the makeup. Just saying.

With that being said let’s move back to power products. Power products are intense. They contain ingredients to diminish the look of fine lines and aid in the appearance of the skin. Basically, it gives the skin luster or a glow. Even during my hospitalization, I made sure I brought my beauty routine. Yeah, the nurses laughed and commented, but then they started asking questions on the products I brought with me to the hospital.

I am a big believer in using eye cream more and night. I don’t like a heavy eye cream that seems to sit on the skin. Applying to the orbital lobe by not pulling the skin. I like to pat my eye cream on then lightly rub. The Silk Therapeutics Eye Revive went on so smoothly I had all the nurses trying it. Now, my favorite product besides the peel is the Silk Intensive C Serum. Oh my goodness, this is some good stuff. If you haven’t added a serum to your beauty routine you must. I like a lightweight serum, especially when using a heavier moisturizer. This went on like velvet, is luscious, and nourishing.

My beauty conclusion? :My skin has never looked better and Silk Therapeutics will remain in the beauty arsenal.

Esquire TV: Uncorked Wine Series

Uncorked

When I first met my husband he was mainly a beer drinker and I was mainly a wine drinker. I started getting into wine in my early 20s, but it really expanded in my 30s. I love reading about the regions, appellations, years, etc. and why certain wines thrive in certain climates and so forth.  A few of my friends started to call me a wine snob after working at Wiliams-Sonoma. Why? Because I couldn’t drink wine without the right glass. The right glass matters.

When I did the taste test with the husband he got it as well. It really does make a difference. Now, I only drink certain wines out of certain glasses and if you bring a sweet wine to my home as a gift (especially Moscato or anything with the name “Red Velvet” wine) you will be leaving with your wine. No. Sweet. Wine. Ever. The only exception is a Sauterne and you brought dessert to accompany the wine. (more…)

Travel Radar: Wellness Suites at Grand Velas Riviera Nayarit

Spa suite

As a beauty writer, I can’t see writing about beauty without writing about travel, especially spas. I’m a spa junkie, especially on vacation. I believe it adds to the experience. Traveling is hard. It’s fun, but it’s hard. The long lines, the waiting, the delays can wreak havoc on your psyche when you travel so a spa allows you to regroup and get back to the center. You.

I am glad to see hotels embracing the wellness movement because it is not going away. I want my fitness, wellness, beach, and fun all at the same place. That is why I’m drooling over the Wellness suites at the Grand Velas Riviera Nayarit. The suites have Alchimia Aromatherapy Kits in various scent to help you relax and reenergize. There are only twelve suites, but I know one has my name on it.

Shopbop Go Big Sale

Shopbop

I’m home recovering from my surgery, but I wanted to let you know about Shopbop’s current sale that starts today. This is not a “holiday shopping” for you. It’s a “treat yo’self” post. In my family, we don’t go crazy buying gifts. We believe in treating yourself all year long. Also my birthday is next month and I’m treating myself. For the past few years Shopbop has been one of my go-to shopping destinations. Not just for clothes, but candles, paper, books, and a few home decor items.

Since I’m cooped up I need my surroundings to smell divine. I have an insane love for Jonathan Adler candles, Tom Dixon candles, and Garance Doré paper.

Le Weekend

Want to Be Happy

If you read yesterday’s post then you know I’m in the hospital recovering from surgery. There were a few things I found interesting that I thought you would enjoy too so I scheduled a few of my favorite stories from online.

This is the last Le Weekend post for a few weeks while I recover from my surgery. I can’t give you an exact date when it will return, but it will be back.

  1. I’m super jealous of David Lebovitz’s Parisian kitchen and workspace. It’s airy, has tons of light, and it’s in Paris.
  2. I can’t get enough of Missy Elliott’s new song. It’s on repeat and I will be pre-ordering this album.
  3. My fitness level is better now than it was in my 20s. I can’t wait to get back to working out and feeling better and not being in constant pain. I haven’t figured out a plan to get back just yet. I know it’s going to be easy yoga, walks outside, and then on the bike at SoulCycle. I’m taking my time and pacing myself, but this story inspires me.
  4. I am obsessed with Linda Rodin and brought her Olio Russo Oil with me to the hospital. I have to recover in style darlings.
  5. I want to be like Shonda Rhimes when I grow up and embrace a year of yes. I can only imagine how hard it is. I pre-ordered her book and can’t wait to read it.

All About the Pretty is Taking a Break

Peonies

I’m ready to say bye-bye to 2015. This year started off rough. On January 8, my brother Jamie passed. It was such a brutal time, but what I didn’t say is he passed the same day I was told I needed a hysterectomy sooner than later. Now, don’t worry. I’m not worried about the surgery. I’m in good hands at Sibley Hospital or Club Sib as the locals call it. I know I’m not meant to be a full-time parent. That’s not the life I want. I love being married, have an amazing husband, and being Aunt Ju-Ju. I’m good.

For the past 18 months I have been in pain from uterine fibroids most of the time and they’ve gotten worse. There would be times I’m talking or walking and a pain would hit me so bad it brought me to my knees. Watching my husband look at me and be helpless has been hard. One day he had had enough and was like “Get this stuff out of you. Now.” I put off the surgery as long as I could because I was still processing Jamie’s death, didn’t want to give up my summer and decided to wait until the end of the year to be cooped up in the house when it’s cold. I know, really, Julia. Yep. 

With that being said, I wanted to let you know why I am taking a break. I’m having a hysterectomy today. While you are reading this. Yes, it’s a major surgery. My husband and mother are here to take care of me, but taking a break means I am helping myself. I will have a few blog posts up during the time, but don’t look for much. I’m not quitting blogging. I still love it too much.

After much discussion with my doctor last week, she’s encouraging total rest for a full three weeks before I even attempt to sit up and write. The recovery is 8-10 weeks with a full internal recovery between 9-12 months. I have a podcasts to listen to, books, and magazines to read. (Please send any and all book recommendations or friend me on Goodreads.) I have more TV shows to binge on than I can count. I won’t be bored. Plus, it gives me time to organize some things I want to work on in 2016. (more…)

About Face with Silk Therapeutics Skincare

I was contacted by the lovely people at Silk Therapeutics to try a few of their products for a few blog posts reviews. One of the reasons I decided to try the line is that it has so few ingredients. In the past, green beauty products looked crappy. I call it like I see it. I’m just gonna say it. I want luxury, functionality, and better ingredients.

In this round, I tried the Silk Renewing Peel and the Ultrasensitive Silk Smoothing Complex. I paired these two together because when I hear the word peel I want to climb under a rock. As a Black woman, peels have not always been good to me. As much as I love them, my face doesn’t. Although I don’t have sensitive skin, peels can be harsh.

I did a patch test first of the Silk Renewing Peel on my forearm and everything was okay. I then tested it on my face following the instructions. I am not usually good about following skincare instructions, but on this peel I did. I did it once a week for two weeks. The first time I tried it I noticed a tightness and glow. The second time it was obvious my skin was glowing…like a nightlight. I’m going to say this. I was a skeptic. A huge skeptic. I didn’t think products that had more natural ingredients could get the results I believed they could especially with a peel. Peels have a tendency to be harsh. Remember that episode from SATC where Samantha looked like a lobster after a peel. Yeah, no way girl.

I normally do my intense skin routine on Sundays. It prep for the week. I followed the peel up with the Ultrasensitive Silk Smoothing Complex because I wanted to stay in the same skincare family to hydrate my skin especially after a peel. My first thought was “why is it so light?” I’m heavy handed and love heavy moisturizers and wondered if this lightweight beauty could stand up to my standards. The next morning my skin looked better. It was due to getting a full 8 hours of sleep and this complex. I know it. Do I think this will work this winter? I’m hoping.

Here’s the kicker. I plan to buy this product. Again. I’m going through a crazy hormonal shift and I need all the help I can get. I’m interested in seeing how my next round of Silk Therapeutics products work on my skin. I’m curious and elated at the same time.

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